People are not broken. They are organized.
Whatever you're doing, it hangs together. The first question isn't what's wrong with you. It's how it all fits together.
Insight hasn't fixed it. Willpower hasn't fixed it. That's because the pattern you're trying to break was, at some point, the smartest thing you could do. The McInnis Method starts there.
The first three explain how a protective pattern gets built. The fourth is how it changes. Click each to read it.
These are load-bearing, not decorative. Everything that happens in therapy begins here.
Whatever you're doing, it hangs together. The first question isn't what's wrong with you. It's how it all fits together.
Something that protected you once can keep running long after the conditions that required it have changed.
You can understand a pattern perfectly and still repeat it. Something different has to happen.
Feelings aren't up for debate. The meaning you made from them is another matter, and it can be tested.
Underneath a protective pattern is a rule you're living by and have never said out loud.
What you gave up to stay protected isn't gone. It's running somewhere else, under different conditions.
What you do repeatedly gets easier to do again. Eventually it stops feeling like a choice.
The moment you notice yourself doing it, the pattern is no longer completely automatic.
I'm Dennard McInnis, an LCSW in Austin working primarily with men, young adults, and older teens who understand a lot about themselves but keep finding themselves in the same patterns. My style is active, curious, and direct. We won't start by deciding what's wrong with you. We'll start by figuring out how what you're doing makes sense.
About Dennard →The full Constitution, all eight principles unabridged, and the reasoning behind the Reality → Threat → Protection → Action sequence.
Read the McInnis Method Constitution →What to actually expect in a session — why the questions land differently, why the pace can feel slow, and why that's the point.
What to expect in therapy →